Originally posted by: Teknoskan
As someone who has worked at flea markets and pop-up retailers, don't expect customer service. You seem to think everyone is entitled to treat potential customers with respect and bank on their every whim because they're selling things and you're interested in buying. The sad fact is that these are people with 0... Z E R O.. expectations of building a continuous customer base. They are there to sell their wares to whoever will buy. They're not retailers seeking return business and they're not worried if you feel inconvenienced. That being said, while I do agree their behavior is a bit crass, from what I read I would like to analyze this from another perspective: the seller.
As for the guy with the demo units, it sounds like he was just being cautious of his merchandise. It appears no one asked him before going through his drawer so ofcourse he's going to be a bit on edge. So I really wouldn't blame him for being an ass, but wouldn't call him out on it either.
The other seller sounds like he might have been running that shop because he can't work a stable job. After all, it sounds like his shaky hands were not being very productive. Also, not to sound like a dick, but if you had issues with his attitude and him changing prices, then you should have left. The fact that you stayed and bought his merch was enough for him to get away with that behavior. Sure he may have had good deals, hell he may have had Stadium Events for a steal, but you supported his business and shit attitude. Also, any game reseller shop I've ever been in has stacks upon stacks of carts in the main case. This drives business. If they kept one of each in the case and the rest in the back, then they wouldn't look stocked and ready to sell.
Also, it's never good on the buyer's part to suggest to a seller how to do business. You might be paying for their next meal, but you're coming off as much of an ass as the shit seller, and some sellers will probably be quick to deny you service. So just because they might be a bad seller, doesn't mean you can be a bad buyer in return. Not saying you are, but it seems by your complaints that you had ample opportunity to take control of the situation.
Comics Plus was not at the flea market. The guy who was at the flea market was actually inside an indoor mall area (Smiley's Flea Market actually distinguishes it from the flea market as the air-conditioned ""Smiley's Mall."). He says that he's been there 17.5 years, rings you up on a register, and charges tax, so it's safe to say that it's really a storefront.
As for being there to sell his wares to whoever will buy with no concern for repeat business: SURE DIDN'T SEEM SO! He knew I wasn't coming back because I told him: I told him how glad I was that he was open on my return trip because I lived over two hours away and would likely never be here again. I was probably the easiest buyer he's ever had and yet he put up a lot of resistance and complained that I wanted to buy his things!
I go to flea markets and yard sales every single weekend I have off so I am perfectly familiar with how they operate. You're right: a lot of these people do this because they'd never cut it if they had to answer to a boss and satisfy regular clientele. They want to be their own boss specifically so they can do what they want and not take crap from anyone. I get that, but believe me when I tell you that this guy was WAY out of line.
I never told him how to run his shop. I am VERY mindful about that. It blew my mind when he actually complained about having to pull games out that a customer wanted to buy. Rather than express shock at this, the nicest way I could respond was by sympathizing while suggesting how he could make things easier for himself. I apologized and sympathized repeatedly for each game I picked without a hint of complaint despite my hidden shock/disbelief.
There were THOUSANDS of unorganized NES games stacked from the bottom to the top all the way against the glass and hundreds (possibly thousands) more behind them that no one could see making it even harder for him to get games from the front. A display case that conceals games and prevents you from selling even the games customers can see?! It was borderline ridiculous and not the typical display you are imagining. Removing dupes would have gone a long way to making it the kind of display case you're thinking of. These were just locking customers away from browsing and making it almost impossible to sell.
For the comic shop guy: we made it clear what we were looking for and he made no attempt to help. This was not a locked drawer or a display case. This was not even a fixture for merchandise. My job for a major retailer is to spot clients who look like they need help and then dispatch a sales associate/manager/security. We have similar situation probably 50 times a week. Even when it's a situation we think requires security or additional scrutiny, we do not start with a snarky accusation (usually ask how we can help; listen to the response). In a situation like that, we've already failed by not engaging the client and offering help when they clearly needed it, but it happens even where I work and I already know how our response would have been: "I see you've found out demo units. Would you like to see our related merchandise?" He caused the situation by neglecting his clients and then responded to his own failure in the absolute worst way possible.
It was a table for a customer to sit at exclusively like it was a desk. We literally could have sat in the chair without an issue. As the eye in the sky, we approach at least 50 people a week