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well, im not gonna sugar coat it, chances you found the one in over 10 billion people is nil

Best thing to do is not get involved, just fuck and be on your way, this is the life to live

Well, at least you have the pictures...

That sucks man...There's nothing anyone can tell you in these situations, I've been there, my friends have been there...its just something you have to work out on your own...Best thing...get some ass early man, the guy always missed the girl more, and they know that...

I'm sorry Seth. The feeling of being rejected from a woman you "love" is the worst feeling in the world. Women suck dude. They don't make sense about 104% of the time, yet we as men need them anyway. It's a vicious cycle. Just get the fuck out of there and do whatever you possibly can to keep busy to try to keep your mind off of her. See other people too, if you can, not that they'll necessarily mean anything, but just to keep busy. Rebound sluts are sometimes a good idea too.

I'll have to second this. Last time a girl broke up with me, it was pretty hard. Try to hang out with your friends as much as you possibly can.

Best advice I can think of.....

Fuck her sister

Thats what I did and it totally made me feel alot better

Sorry to hear it man. I am sure you feel destroyed by this, but it seems as if you are shutting everything else down that brings you happiness. I bet lots of us have done this as an immediate reaction to heartache, but it only makes things worse. Now is the time to lean on your friends, Nintendo (can't hurt, lol), and maybe even a good time to put your head down and focus on your career. Let it out man, don't run away from it. We're here for you.

Mine too, while I was on the bus back from her house.

Let's go drink and pick up some nasty sluts with our manly hairyness?

Be strong man, moments like these aren't easy, and if it has to be final, you will pass through it with patience and wisdom. I'm not a love expert, but I'd like to add something to what Burnambill and Jumpman just said.

Keep you busy, alright, do want you want to do. But, don't freeze your feelings with artificials escapes. Be honest with yourself, and if your love is true but impossible, you must "kill" it through painful thoughts and self suffering. That's cruel, but that's how love is. Hanging with friends will help you sometimes, but you may need to take some moments to be with yourself and realize the worst, to forgot it "faster" and makes feelings inside you change by themselves.

Dude,
Sorry to hear this bro, I know how much you were digging her to. Hang in there bro. Take a little time to bounce back and get right back on the dating horse. Hit me up on AIM if you need to chat or anything.
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"i love you but im not in love with you"..............sounds like something I would say to a stack of pancakes.

Just hang out with your friends alot. Even mutual friends. Thats what I'm doing at the moment so that the mutual friends don't get some bullshit story from my ex.

I still say fuck her sister

Sorry you're shat upon, Seth. Good luck finding some sweet rebound booty. That's always good, on both ends of it.

Sorry to hear it. Don't let it hit your self esteem too hard. Most of us have been in those shoes before, and you'll be fine.

BTW...this DOES NOT entitle you to go back to ball-sack avatars

Oh...and how about passing around some revenge pics? That will definitely make you feel better!

Heather and I like Matt's idea.

But really, I am sorry to hear that you're going through this. Don't really have a lot of consoling words but know that if you want to take an escape vacation to Wisconsin you are more than welcome to sleep in the game room. It would be totally awesome.

I second that !

Seriosly tho, that sucks dude . Hope things get beter for ya man. Just keep your mind off of it for awhile, best thing you can do.

Quit your whining Dingleberry!

In all seriousness and because you never asked for my advice, I would suggest praying and surrounding yourself with loved ones. The universe will open for you again Seth. Keep your head up.

MLN

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Hang in there, dude. You'll be in my prayers If you want to take a break from NA, go ahead; we'll be here when you're ready to come back!

I've dated a number of women who turned out to have severe issues, too, and it always hurts more when they leave for some reason. It sort of feels like maybe you were the one who could help them make their lives better, but it doesn't really work that way. Nobody can fix another person, no matter how hard you try. The best thing you can do is keep her in your prayers, and take the rest a day at a time.

I only say the first half of that to my pancakes.

Seth, Nick speaks truth. Rebound sluts are the way to go. Wrap it up.

Seriously, lots of protection when going for rebound sluts.  Don't need a rebound to turn into a string that ends in a kid.

Im TELLING you, do this (now that it is confirmed)

1. Meet with sister
2. Make a proposal (the same way you would do a big meeting, have only the pros, no cons)
3. Show her the goods
4. ?????????
5. PROFIT!!!! (lots of it)

If she's messed up like that then honestly just count yourself lucky that the breakup is now and not later when things are much more complicated (marriage/kids). I know breaking up sucks hard but from the sounds of it you're better off without her in the long run. Someone who you care about just as much and is a better match to boot will come around for you sooner or later.