Originally posted by: Scrobins09
Originally posted by: kguillemette
We argue to death about the way the site is run, why not the country?
Anyone other than biden or gabbard in the general election will be slaughtered. Everyone else running is a hillary clone, Bernie clone, or some combination thereof. Bunch of no compromising primadonnas trying to get lazy people to vote by promising them free shit like college and healthcare. Or jacking the Fed. Min wage to more than double what it is now. Or student loan forgiveness (essentially an enormous handout). Guess what? These promises to your average lazy American that's too lazy to simply work hard and do a good job to earn the money that's right there if werent to damn lazy to go get it wont matter. Why? These lazy Americans will be too lazy to go vote. Where's my Democrat that says go out and work hard? You might have to go do a job you dont like, but you can indeed make it in this world! Obama was that guy! I remember him giving a specific speech saying exactly that.
Oh gee, I'm sorry to all those college grads that got swindled by accepting a bad loan for a degree in a field that is either too competitive or just plain poor earning. Im sorry that your BA in women's studies or communications isn't yielding the returns whatever wack university you went to promised. I have a better idea. Rather than clamor for loan forgiveness and whine about underemployment, go blue collar! Get your CDL and drive! Get into HVAC training, plumbing, electrical, anything tradesworthy! There isn't enough skilled workers around. You would make upwards of 20 hr depending on your location to start with benefits. Get into healthcare! Hell, nurse aides make 16 minimum around here, and that's simply a 1000 dollar course. Put your time in at a single facility long enough and you will see your pay rate creep up to the point of affording a solid mortgage. Go wait tables or bartend! If you are half decent at sales and customer service, you will make some money. Server's at the restaurant i was working at typically pull in 150 to 200 a night! Bartenders pull extra! Shit, mediocre line cooks make 13 hr around here. Not even good ones.
Is that the six figure salary these lazy assholes were promised out of school? No, it's not. Those six figure salaries go to the not lazy college grads that are hungry enough to earn it. That 70 k income you would get instead will get you a nice life. Just get your hands dirty.
I believe in social equality. All people should be treated as equals so long as they follow the laws of the land. I do not believe in financial equality. I believe in capitalism. Stop crying about the 1%. The money is right there. Just go get it!
/end rant
It's so easy to give the ol' up by your bootstraps argument, but the reality isn't that simple.
I'm a lawyer. I make six figures, but I'm approximately $300,000 in debt and my best hope is public student loan forgiveness. I keep my personal costs down and save for retirement to take advantage of employer matching contributions. But I had to take out multiple credit cards and max them out in order to pay the bills while studying for the bar, moving to my job, and staying afloat until my first paychecks came in. Between the credit cards and student loans, I was barely breaking even but slowly chipped away at my debt. I eventually got an even better job and wiped away all my non-student loan debt. Then I lost my job. I ran up the debt again while searching for what became my current job, and I'm back where I was before: breaking even and slowly chipping away at debt, praying I don't have a serious accident that breaks the equilibrium. My girlfriend has it worse. I won't share her details because she wouldn't want me to, but suffice it to say she has had the medical emergencies that I've been fortunate enough to avoid, and despite her spartan lifestyle doesn't always know if she'll make rent in addition to the payments on her debts.
A lot of us are doing our best and trying to make the most of our situations, but the system itself seems arrayed against us. And yet we see rich morons like Trump get richer by overleveraging their properties and essentially capitalizing on bankruptcy. I would love to fail up into billions of dollars, but I guess I'm too busy working hard and playing by the rules. And a lot of us on all shades of the political spectrum just want some systemic change that means one accident doesn't break us for years on end. Because it isn't as simple as "go bartend" or "get HVAC certified".
I have some questions for you. Please do not take them personally as this happens a lot discussing politics. Feel free to not answer anything you feel too personal.
Where did you go to school? Did you live on or off campus? Did you have the opportunity to work while in school, especially during Freshman and sophmore years and did you work as much as you could have? Could you have taken pre-reqs at less expensive schools and transfer in? Did you apply for as many scholarship and grants as you could have and/or took steps to qualify for them?
Do you still live in DC/NOVA? Have you considered finding work somewhere considerably less expensive but relatively nearby such as Richmond or Spotsylvania County? Are you a property owner with equity built up(God Bless you if you are property owner in NOVA/DC)? If you are unliscenced in VA, have you considered moving to Spotsy and commuting in?
Is your projected income going to increase at your current job? If so, will it be at a rate high enough to make offsetting the equalibrium worthwhile?
Financial decisions you make when you are young follow you into your adulthood. Are you pursuing your passions with your law career? Passion can carry financial risk, though dreams are absolutely worth shooting for.
Finally, are you happy with your career whether with job satisfaction or income? Is it all worth it to you? If you, hypothetically, were giving advice to your 16 year old son about college/university, would you reccomend the path you took?